To Date…

To Date…

In 2023 I became a Swiftie. If you don’t know what that means, it means I really started to like and listen to Taylor Swift’s music. I had heard some of her music prior to 2023, but didn’t pay much attention to it. I kept reading about Swift’s Eras Tour and it peaked...
Regrets- What If I Had None?

Regrets- What If I Had None?

The famous song line, “Regrets, I’ve had a few” is one that I think many of us can relate to. Yet what I see frequently, is that people get stuck in those regrets. They live the rest of their lives focused on the regrets, the things they said or did that they wish...
Peak Experiences

Peak Experiences

When I went to school to become a psychologist, a popular theorist was often discussed, Abraham Maslow. Maslow posited the hierarchy of needs and the concept of peak experiences which refers to moments of intense joy, fulfillment, and transcendence, during which we...
AITA

AITA

There’s a very entertaining online thread called, “AITA – Am I the Asshole?”  It’s a subreddit that was created in 2013 by photographer and dog rescuer, Marc Beaulac. Beaulac wanted to determine if he had been inappropriately mansplaining in a debate with female...
Drop The Rope

Drop The Rope

The other day, I asked one of my clients if he would consider “dropping the rope” with his ex-wife. He’d never heard that saying before and it led to a great conversation around picking our battles. (I’m filled with metaphoric phrases these days.) Drop the rope means...
Laying Down My Judgements

Laying Down My Judgements

Recently I was stranded at the Cincinnati airport due to bad storms caused by yet, another hurricane. There were lots of frustrated, stranded people at the airport. Many of them with younger children. As I was doing yet another lap around the terminal, I heard a young...