How To Tell When Your Life Is Out Of Control

How To Tell When Your Life Is Out Of Control

I asked a friend how she knew things were starting to feel a little unmanageable.She didn’t hesitate.“Laundry.”That’s it. That was the answer.Not her inbox.Not her finances.Not her marriage.  Laundry.  And honestly? It made perfect sense.Because when life feels...
Stress Is Not The Enemy

Stress Is Not The Enemy

Stress gets a bad reputation. We talk about it as if it’s something to eliminate, conquer, or outrun. We download apps to reduce it, schedule vacations to escape it, and tell ourselves that once this busy season is over, we’ll finally feel better. But here’s the truth...
Stop Forecasting the Worst

Stop Forecasting the Worst

One of my clients recently used a word that stopped me in my tracks. He said, “I’m really good at forecasting.” At first, that sounded like a useful skill. Strategic. Thoughtful. Maybe even wise. But as he continued, it became clear what he meant. “I forecast being...
Overthinking Paint

Overthinking Paint

One of my coaching clients has a high-pressure job. She leads a large team, manages major projects, and juggles constant demands from every direction. Her days are filled with meetings, decisions, and expectations that often feel impossible to meet. Recently, she told...
Strong Enough To Handle It

Strong Enough To Handle It

One of the more common situations that comes up with my coaching clients is the belief that they can’t handle challenging situations in their lives. They tell themselves that they wouldn’t be able to handle it if their partner left them or if their children were angry...