Sep 16, 2015 | Stress Relief |
Recently, I gave one of my clients the assignment of repeating again and again, “What’s done is done.” Based on her scowling face, I’m pretty sure she didn’t like that assignment. Like many of my clients, she seemed to relish the opportunity to beat up on herself over...
Sep 9, 2015 | Happiness Fulfillment & Self Esteem
A topic that comes up again and again for me, my clients, and my friends is the feeling of being uncomfortable when we try new things, change something in our lives, or do something scary. It’s uncomfortable to suddenly be assertive and ask for what we want. It’s...
Aug 19, 2015 | Happiness Fulfillment & Self Esteem
Here’s what I hear from women, “No, he wasn’t very nice to me, but I’m okay. I’m tough.” “So no one listens to me at my house? I can handle it. It’s no big deal.” “There’s no doubt he has dragged the...
Aug 12, 2015 | Happiness Fulfillment & Self Esteem
Here’s what my clients tell me, “I need to be completely selfless, that’s just who I am. Otherwise I’m being selfish and I’m not happy that way.” They tell me this as if women have only two choices in life, to give up everything for...
Jul 29, 2015 | Happiness Fulfillment & Self Esteem
Last week, one of my clients was going through a very difficult time. She was ready to just succumb to the unhappiness she was feeling. Understandably, she felt angry, out of control, and pissed off at me and the world. Yet she sent me an email that had this line,...
Jul 23, 2015 | Happiness Fulfillment & Self Esteem
Last week, I was honored to give a 2-day talk to a group of wonderful women around the topic of Executive Presence for Women. I gave the talk through the American Management Association in Chicago. The program was a microcosm of how I would want the world to be all...
