New Year, Same You

New Year, Same You

Raise your hand if you’ve made the same New Year’s resolution for many years in a row? (Author raises her hand). Me, I have! Maybe it’s because New Year’s resolutions are a bizarre way of setting goals or maybe we just don’t know how to set goals. Either way, rarely...
Your Choice For 2025

Your Choice For 2025

In 2025, as in most years of our lives, many of us will be faced with leaders or people in our lives who are extremely difficult. People who are angry, aggressive, divisive, belittling, controlling, and spiteful. Those qualities are often enticing to match. I see any...
We Bring The Weekly Weather

We Bring The Weekly Weather

Since becoming empty nesters, my husband and I have embraced the joy of traveling together, making the most of our airline miles and hotel points to explore new destinations. We like to joke—perhaps a bit too confidently—that perfect weather follows us wherever we go,...
Do You Really Want To Mute Your Joy?

Do You Really Want To Mute Your Joy?

Frequently, clients will tell me that they are just going to tolerate a situation. Or they are just going to not feel bad anymore, for any reason. As I’m known to do, I respond with, “What could go wrong with that plan?” Luckily, my clients seem to enjoy my snarky...
Gratitude As A Game Changer

Gratitude As A Game Changer

About 15 years ago when I was going through a challenging time of life, a friend gifted me with a gratitude journal. Admittedly, I initially thought of itas woo woo nonsense, which really reflects my mindset at the time. I was feeling sorry for myself, I didn’t have a...