Stress Is Not The Enemy

Stress Is Not The Enemy

Stress gets a bad reputation. We talk about it as if it’s something to eliminate, conquer, or outrun. We download apps to reduce it, schedule vacations to escape it, and tell ourselves that once this busy season is over, we’ll finally feel better. But here’s the truth...
Stop Forecasting the Worst

Stop Forecasting the Worst

One of my clients recently used a word that stopped me in my tracks. He said, “I’m really good at forecasting.” At first, that sounded like a useful skill. Strategic. Thoughtful. Maybe even wise. But as he continued, it became clear what he meant. “I forecast being...
Leading With Love

Leading With Love

My rescue goldendoodle, Ralph, is a 2.5-year-old bundle of contradictions. He’s big, fluffy, rambunctious, and wildly affectionate—and at the same time, he’s afraid of almost everything. Loud noises, unfamiliar people, sudden movements… you name it, Ralph will jump....
Why I Travel

Why I Travel

Many years ago my husband was invited to a cultural work trip to China with other orthodontists and their spouses. Neither of us had ever traveled much farther than an all-inclusive in Mexico (which is lovely) but we said yes, despite being somewhat unsure of this...