The Dirty Little Secret Of A Control Freak

The Dirty Little Secret Of A Control Freak

Let’s just say… I like things done a certain way. So when I left town for work when the kids were home (which happened about six times a year), I would tend to prepare my family like they’re about to go through military training. I left behind what I call the...
Why Is It Easier To Love My Dog Than My Husband?

Why Is It Easier To Love My Dog Than My Husband?

A few years ago, I accidentally locked my dog, Ginger, in the garage. It took me aboutan hour to realize that she was missing and then a bit longer until I opened the garagedoor and there she was. She was thrilled with me. I got a bunch of puppy kisses, big tailwags...
Working on the AND and not the BUT

Working on the AND and not the BUT

Recently I caught myself using the word “But” quite frequently. “I’d be happy to do thatbut I’m too busy right now.” “That’s an interesting response but here’s a better one.”“He’s really good at what he does but there are still areas where he could approve.” Saying...
Who’s Fault Is This?

Who’s Fault Is This?

How often have you not heard back from a friend or a colleague and you’ve askedyourself, “What have I done wrong?” Or maybe you’ve said, “This is what they’ve donewrong.” Either way, often our first thoughts are to place blame, either on ourselves orthe other person....
I’ve Never Told Anyone This

I’ve Never Told Anyone This

Coaching and therapy are two unique helping modalities that are based on a confidential relationship between the client and the coach or therapist. It’s a crucial part of that relationship because without it . . .  well without it, why bother? Having a safe place...