Did We Appreciate the Time We Had With Our Children?

One of my dear friends is the mother of my daughter’s very best friend in the world. My friend and I have been more than a bit emotional this year as our daughter’s are about to graduate from high school and head off to college, both away from us and away...
Good Bye, Dear Friend

Good Bye, Dear Friend

Last month, I had to say good-bye to my beloved minivan. She’d been with me for ten years and she’d saved my life at least once. A bad driver made a silly judgment call that led to the ultimate demise of my favorite car. She wasn’t my first minivan, but she was...
Reverse Nesting

Reverse Nesting

When I was pregnant with each of my three children, I went through a manic nesting stage. I cleaned the house, bought things for the baby and baby proofed the rooms. It was my way of trying to control what I could during a scary, emotional time. I was thrilled to be...
My Kid’s Harvard

My Kid’s Harvard

The pressure on these kids to go to the best schools in the country is rather outrageous. My daughter is a senior in high school this year. She will be attending a wonderful college in the fall and everything has worked out fine. Yet the insanity of the college...
This Mom’s “Inside Out”

This Mom’s “Inside Out”

I know I’m late to the party when I tell you that I just finished watching the movie, “Inside Out”. As a psychologist and a life coach, I absolutely loved the movie; it’s message, and the lessons it gently laid out. However, as a mom it made me...
Accepting Our Children, Accepting Ourselves

Accepting Our Children, Accepting Ourselves

As my three children get older, it appears that they are going to do what they want to do. It’s shocking. I was really hoping that they would let me boss them around for a few more years in order to make sure they picked the right colleges, the right careers, and...