Reverse Nesting

Reverse Nesting

When I was pregnant with each of my three children, I went through a manic nesting stage. I cleaned the house, bought things for the baby and baby proofed the rooms. It was my way of trying to control what I could during a scary, emotional time. I was thrilled to be...
My Kid’s Harvard

My Kid’s Harvard

The pressure on these kids to go to the best schools in the country is rather outrageous. My daughter is a senior in high school this year. She will be attending a wonderful college in the fall and everything has worked out fine. Yet the insanity of the college...
Online Dating Tips for Women Over 40

Online Dating Tips for Women Over 40

Lately I’ve been talking to friends and clients in the over-40 crowd who are (for a variety of reasons) entering the dating scene. Most of these women haven’t dated since before the digital dating age. Needless to say, it’s a bit of a shock for these...
This Mom’s “Inside Out”

This Mom’s “Inside Out”

I know I’m late to the party when I tell you that I just finished watching the movie, “Inside Out”. As a psychologist and a life coach, I absolutely loved the movie; it’s message, and the lessons it gently laid out. However, as a mom it made me...
On Dysfunctional Families

On Dysfunctional Families

Now that we are well out of the holiday season and in full swing of the new year, let’s talk about dysfunctional families. I spend a lot of time with clients and friends, talking about our messed up families. Apparently, we all think that others have normal families...
Accepting Our Children, Accepting Ourselves

Accepting Our Children, Accepting Ourselves

As my three children get older, it appears that they are going to do what they want to do. It’s shocking. I was really hoping that they would let me boss them around for a few more years in order to make sure they picked the right colleges, the right careers, and...