The Fallacy of Control

The Fallacy of Control

How many of you consider yourselves control freaks? How’s that working for you? I really like to be controlling. I’d prefer if everyone in my life did what I told them to do. I’ve tried to control my husband, my parents, my kids, even my dog. I’ve succeeded exactly...
Fully Present

Fully Present

When my first child was born, I was so overwhelmed and stressed out that I found it difficult to be fully present in the moment. Over time I got better at it, but I found that motherhood and its demands made it very difficult to be emotionally present. My mind was...
Modern Day Pen Pals

Modern Day Pen Pals

When I was a kid, I loved having a pen pal. I had one through my Brownie troop, a couple through school, and periodically a family member pen pal. There was something so exciting about getting a letter in the mail and learning a little bit about another person, as...
Not My Time Syndrome, Revisited

Not My Time Syndrome, Revisited

In honor of me enjoying my summer, I decided to repurpose an old blog post of mine. Actually, this is the first post I ever wrote. I was terrified to publish it to an online local newspaper so I read and reread it until I finally worked up the courage to hit send....