Champagne Problems

Champagne Problems

Recently, a client called a situation in her life a “champagne problem”. Her point was that her problem comes from a place of privilege and thus is not as important or terrible as the problems of those who are less privileged. This concept caught my attention. I...
Worst-Case Scenarios?

Worst-Case Scenarios?

I’ve learned so many lessons from my clients, but probably the greatest is the awareness that worst-case scenarios keep so many of us from taking risks and living full, challenging lives. Worst-case scenarios are what we tell ourselves when we are about to dive into...
Get Out Of My Car!

Get Out Of My Car!

Do you ever find yourself in the middle of your kid’s business, or your partner’s, or your co-worker’s? Are you over involved, telling them what to do and over attached to their outcomes? Well, I was mentioning this issue to a friend of mine and she told me that she...
Sharing Our Misery

Sharing Our Misery

There were a few years in my adult life in which I was pretty miserable. Most of it was my own doing or due to my own lens of the world. But still, I was miserable. If you were friends with me at that time, you would have never known how miserable I was. I was all...