Get Out Of My Car!

Get Out Of My Car!

Do you ever find yourself in the middle of your kid’s business, or your partner’s, or your co-worker’s? Are you over involved, telling them what to do and over attached to their outcomes? Well, I was mentioning this issue to a friend of mine and she told me that she...
Sharing Our Misery

Sharing Our Misery

There were a few years in my adult life in which I was pretty miserable. Most of it was my own doing or due to my own lens of the world. But still, I was miserable. If you were friends with me at that time, you would have never known how miserable I was. I was all...
Stealing My Joy

Stealing My Joy

Recently, a client used the term, “stealing my joy.” She was talking about work that felt uncomfortable and challenging to her. It was a brilliant and insightful statement in that she realized she was putting ownership of her happiness outside of herself. If we get to...
Biding Time?

Biding Time?

Last week, I had a series of clients who talked about biding their time in order to get through rather miserable situations. One client was going to stay in a very unhappy marriage for a few more years…for the kids. Another high-level executive was going to stay...